THE LOST FERRY OF CHILDHOOD
from gentle and merciless light
darkness will take you back
you’ve forgotten how comforting
home can be when everybody’s left
love can be so threatening, you know
that’s why we keep it in our heart
and not hold it in our hands
must you go on that ship
just to prove you couldn’t swim?
a bag of tomorrow’s lunch
and lifetime supplies of sadness
the horn was blowing
there was never another shore
you close your eyes
though there’s no shame in losing
dorset, october 2015
UNLOVE
When I’m hurt, my typical initial reaction will be to call a friend avoid people. I would even leave my habitat and start over, meeting new people until I’m hurt again. There is a reason for this, at least. There is something about pain that makes you crave for it. You see, for me, like love, pain is a life’s gift. you get hurt, you want to feel the pain, to celebrate it. Sometimes you do it by hurting yourself. But, unlike love, pain is not limited substance – it grows. Sometimes it’s not enough to hurt yourself, you hurt another person because you cannot contain the over-growing pain within yourself. I seemed to understand this mechanism hence i kept running away. Continue reading
PLATH: THIS IS NOT I
Seven years ago, I was invited to perform my poetry in Jakarta on one of the two nights of a literary venue.
I just finished, at that time, a poetry performance project with some young musician and artist friends and had successfully performed in two cities. However, the committee of the venue in Jakarta wanted me to perform alone, just me and my poetry, or in the man-in-charge’s own words: “could you just come without your boyfriend?” He sounded bitter, and he was wrong – my then boyfriend had nothing to do with art except that of making me cry. Love, love, love. Continue reading
CHICKEN AND FREUD: IS ROASTING MENTAL?
A friend of mine warned me recently: “beware, baking is addictive.” I looked blankly at the roast chicken a la Jamie Oliver I’d prepared for us and replied, “but I roasted.” She just smirked. “Roasting, baking, grilling — whatever you call it. Just as long as you use your oven.”
I wasn’t sure where she was going with the oven metaphor and I didn’t ask. Continue reading
FRIENDS
What are friends? It’s an idea that excites my spontaneity and shakes my deeper layer of being at the same time. I don’t know where to start or why I am talking about something I don’t quite understand.
Where do you start when you talk about friends – do you start from regular hangouts, endless supports or traumatising betrayals? Continue reading
THE OLD SMOKE
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i have no memories
to start a conversation
there were only thrills that grew
while the chances had begun to paralyse
they say silence means yes
but you’re not asking any questions
except about the wind, except about others
i don’t have the answers
i still often hang about the kitchen
pretending to cook yet sobbing
only because we were not talking
as if we were a couple of burdens, as we are now
they say if you love you remember everything
every kiss which if discussed
would wound the meaning of ‘ex-lover’
while being kept would turn into bruises
the night has stopped by, “another cigarette,” you said
a fire squeezed my hand, twice
i thought time was up, although time
has nothing to do with my heart
yogyakarta-dorset, 2014
ASAP LAMA
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aku tak punya kenangan
untuk membuka percakapan
hanya ada bungah yang terus tumbuh
sementara kesempatan sudah mulai lumpuh
kata orang kalau diam saja berarti iya
tapi kamu tidak bertanya tentang apa-apa
selain angin, selain orang-orang lain
aku tak punya jawabannya
aku masih sering berdiri di dapur
pura-pura memasak tapi mengisak
hanya karena kita diam-diaman
seperti sepasang beban, seperti sekarang
kata orang kalau cinta ingat semuanya
setiap ciuman yang kalau dibahas
akan melukai makna ‘mantan pacar’
sementara dipendam bakal jadi memar
malam sudah singgah, “serokokan,” katamu
ada api meremas tanganku, dua kali
kukira waktunya sudah habis, walaupun waktu
tak ada urusannya dengan hatiku
yogyakarta-dorset, 2014
ROADKILL
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a golden light through the farmer’s window
a song from the war as i pass under the abandoned railway bridge
a field of rape rising up from behind the young hedges
none of it touches me
i am breathing scars in my brain
my heart is useless
it is so worn out i can’t walk in it!
papa would you love me if i befriended your god;
and mama would you ask how i am if you were not dying?
there is no road kill from somerset to dorset tonight
but they’re all dead in tanjungkarang
the wind is waiting, i suppose
nothing am i fearing
dorset, 2013
THE FINAL WIND
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nobody knows how much i loved him
since the night i opened every door to my dreams
there was a space bigger than the sky in my heart
for him, forever became him, forever was him
i ran to catch him, i smelt his skin
knowing not when to stop or how
i took off all my clothes, i was naked before him
knowing not when he’d understand or give up
i made love to him, from skin to blood
i let him kiss my scars, he made me leave god
i was overjoyed with all the flowers and the strife
i used to smile and laugh until i cried
then i sat there in the garden, in the rain, raining
the wind changed for me, so i changed for it
he was blown away from my nerves
he was gone before we said good bye
the sand in the beach i want to forget
the letters at the door i have swept
nobody knows how much i loved him
nobody knows how i stopped–i can’t explain
yogyakarta, 2011